Lots of people, especially well-known coaches, high profile business leaders "posture" or pretend that they don't have drama or they are not vunerable to drama. The truth is everyone experiences drama sooner or later.
Because of my private coaching, I've heard the secrets you will never hear in public. Additionally, I've been there too, and I realize the danger of believing you're "above it all."
Listed here are four truths to assist you confront and even welcome your drama.
1. Drama is element of life.
2. Drama keeps you real
3. Drama is a teacher
4. Overcoming drama contributes to freedom
Drama is part of life.
The meaning for drama is "any obstacle to your peace or prosperity." If you don't really are a guru living on a remote mountain spending all of your time in meditation you are likely to have some drama here and there. Yes, there will be times if you are in the flow and you believe you have all of it figured out. You are earning profits, your relationships are rewarding and your wellbeing is excellent. Then something happens and you begin to feel unstable. The downward spiral begins. The great thing is that a little drama reminds you of your humanity. Dramacool
Drama Keeps You Real
When things are going well it's easy to obtain "high and mighty." I'm sure you've seen it. Someone of extraordinary status starts boasting, judging and advising, then something happens. The stock market crashes, they lose their business, their spouse leaves them. Rather than gloating, just remember that most of us eventually come face to handle with drama. Going right through it yourself keeps you real and helps you build your compassion muscle.
Drama is a Great Teacher
Most drama is in the mind. You are feeling inadequate which means you exaggerate your income. You worry that others will judge you as you lost your biggest client. You've a nagging feeling that you are never planning to succeed and you're ashamed of how you look. Could it be you will find hidden lessons on self-acceptance or authenticity? Maybe your drama is trying to educate you on not to confuse where you stand with who you are. Your drama always has rich learning points if you are willing to check inward.
Overcoming Drama Contributes to Freedom
When I first began my journey I hated my background. I struggled with my identity for the first three to four years although I was speaking professionally. Eventually, facing your fears contributes to freedom. Listed here are two questions:
1. What are you currently hiding?
2. What are you currently afraid of?
Are you currently hiding a company or relationship failure? Are you currently afraid you're not really adequate? Are you currently afraid you'll be viewed as a fraud? Are you currently secretly afraid of rejection?
The biggest fear most of us face is the fear of judgment. Judgment blocks prosperity and keeps you in a constant state of "mind drama."
When you are able be who you're without having to hide and without fearing the judgment of others then you have stopped your drama and you're free.
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